The Fear brings an iota of Relieve

Fear Fear… it’s good my friend.. that will set u r moderate life style afire. If you don’t fear anything u r nothing. Fear fuels u up to go beyond u r limits and perform miracles in your field which would never have been possible under normal circumstances. Fear of failing in exams pumps me up to give an extra hour form my precious sleep to study, but for my friends it was the fear of not getting distinction that keeps them awake all night . Fear nourishes u irrespective of the environment u dwell in. Fear in life should not be taken as a punishment or a force which pulls u down but it should be taken as a challenge to blossom.
The very reason I’m venting this into words is b’coz I’m living in a constant fear of ruining my career in present Work Place, the fear of losing whatever I know in coding , the logic, the creative part in me, the fear of killing the baby programmer in me which is destined to be a man in future. Now this Fear comes as a relieve to me, a blessing in disguise which prompts me too look for a new and a better WP. It won’t allow me to sit idle until it has done its part. People have all sort of fears , fear of getting hit while crossing a road makes u extra careful when doing so, fear of u r credit card bill crossing u r monthly salary keeps a check in u r love for shopping n partying. Fear of getting married.. that’s the big one “Baap of all Fears” which is presently haunting most of my friends who don’t want to get married and fear of not getting a proper bride which troubles some of my friends who wants to get married .With marriage is attached the fear of not getting a proper value in the market(Dowry) in case of arranged marriage and for lovers is the fear of getting married with family consent. The IT market as the pundits says is on slow down and will face lot’s of downsizing and less iteration hike as compared to its history- provoke each and every IT professional to give more than 100% in their work and stick to the same company as of for now.
Today is the V day— ‘Lovers Days’ – Ladka-Ladki will meet an enjoy the day with a terse of fear in everyone ,how long will this relationship last? will it go the final stage ‘Marriage’ and some will have the fear that by next V day will they be with the same partner . In both the cases fear acts as a catalyst to help them achieve what they desire for the next V day—new partner or marry the present V day partner. :). So peoples take this fear as source of inspiration to move forward rather than taking it as a obstacle in u r life. Happy Valentine’s Day to one and all.. have rocking n loving evening. And for peoples with no partner .. all d best to have one in near future and hope by next Valentine u find one. Keep Fearing.